Separation and divorce can be an emotionally charged time, especially when parents struggle to communicate or make joint decisions about their children. Even after parenting orders or agreements are made, disputes about day-to-day arrangements can continue to arise. That’s where a Parenting Coordinator can help.
What is a Parenting Coordinator?
A Parenting Coordinator is a neutral professional who assists separated parents in implementing and complying with parenting orders or parenting plans. They often have a background in law, psychology, or dispute resolution, and bring specialized skills in managing high-conflict situations. The Parenting Coordinator’s role focuses on reducing conflict and helping parents communicate more effectively for the benefit of their children.
Parenting coordination is not about re-litigating old disputes. Instead, it provides a practical, child-focused framework for resolving ongoing issues without returning to court.
What Does a Parenting Coordinator Do?
A Parenting Coordinator helps parents manage and resolve everyday parenting issues that can become points of tension, such as:
- Scheduling and handover arrangements
- Decisions about extracurricular activities or schooling
- Communication difficulties between parents
- Health or discipline issues
- Introducing new partners or changes in family circumstances
They can also educate parents about effective communication, conflict management, and co-parenting strategies. In some cases, if parents are unable to agree, the Parenting Coordinator may make limited decisions within the scope of the court order or parenting plan.
When is Parenting Coordination Used?
Parenting coordination is particularly useful when:
- Parents have ongoing conflict after parenting orders are made
- Children are being affected by parental disputes
- Parents struggle to implement or interpret existing orders
- Court involvement has not resolved communication breakdowns
Courts may refer families to a Parenting Coordinator as part of post-order case management, or parents can agree to engage one privately through their lawyers.
Benefits of a Parenting Coordinator
Engaging a Parenting Coordinator can help parents:
- Reduce conflict and improve communication
- Avoid returning to court for minor disagreements
- Protect children from exposure to ongoing disputes
- Promote cooperation and focus on the best interests of the child
- Develop long-term co-parenting skills
By supporting parents to work together more effectively, Parenting Coordinators play a crucial role in promoting stability and emotional wellbeing for children after separation.
How Much Does Parenting Coordination Cost and Who Pays?
The cost of engaging a Parenting Coordinator varies depending on the coordinator’s qualifications, experience, and location. Generally, fees range from $250 to $500 per hour. Parenting Coordination is typically more cost-effective than returning to court, as it helps parents resolve issues promptly without the expense and stress of further litigation.
In most cases, both parents share the cost equally, unless the parties agree otherwise, or the court makes a specific order about payment arrangements. It is important that parents discuss fees and payment terms with the Parenting Coordinator before commencing the process to ensure clarity and fairness.
How W & G Lawyers Can Help
At W & G Lawyers, we understand that parenting after separation can be challenging. Our experienced family law team can advise you on whether parenting coordination may be suitable in your situation and help you access qualified professionals.
We can also assist you with parenting arrangements, court orders, and tailored legal advice to support your family’s transition.
If you’re experiencing difficulties in implementing parenting arrangements or wish to learn more about parenting coordination, contact our family law team today.
Email: info@wglawyers.com.au
Phone: (07) 2810 5666
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Disclaimer
This article contains general information only and does not constitute legal advice. You should obtain specific legal or financial advice relevant to your circumstances before taking any action.